I'm not a big believer in mourning somebody that I've never met.
It is clear that millions of Michael Jackson fans are of the opinion that you can know someone through the media to such an extent that their death causes untold grief, but I think there may be a hint of the pressures and emotions of everyday life being chanelled into an unexpected event, which the brain perceives as an opportunity to offload stress in a socially acceptable way. I don't know whether I read that somewhere or whether I just made it up. Any social scientists or psychologists reading this? Feel free to tell me that I'm talking out of my arse.
I've heard more than one person comparing this to the death of Lady Diana. The only similarity is that it has resulted in massive public reaction.
Although I've sat in front of the television like everybody else and shouted 'freak!' at the sight of Wako's hideously mangled nose, I have to concede that the man was talented. I'm not really a fan of pop music, but his songs sent tingles up my spine; electric is the only way to describe it.
As for Lady Diana? She shook hands with a few land mine victims and cuddled some kids with HIV. Other than that she spent her life running around trying to get laid. Big deal.
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- 2009-06-27 @ 09:54:09
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- 2009-06-27 @ 12:12:28
What about when Heath Ledger died? That was an incredibly strange feeling when I heard about it on the radio - it was such a shock and so amazingly unexpected that I did feel incredibly overcome with an odd sense of something, I dunno if it was grief or sorrow for the loss of such an underappreciated actor, but it was very odd, because as you put I'd never met him.
I think with Michael Jackson, although it was a little unexpected, it's not quite as shocking because of the highly pressurised life that he'd led since a very young age. -
- 2009-06-28 @ 20:36:04
Mourning a public figure is a form of pseudo mourning.
My favourite aunt's funeral took place the day after Diana died. I was shaking with grief at a real personal loss - of my aunt - and everyone else in the world seemed to be just pretending. -
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- 2009-07-26 @ 19:43:52
Well, I was really upset about Oliver Postgate, but the two you mention? Meh is the word.
paulinemom
Oh so true.....
Mind...a 'mini observation' BOTH were icons in their own right but they did know how to play the media